Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Hiding Something

Sometimes because of pride or ego or a mistaken idea, one person may not confide in another or tell them the whole truth. Have you ever been in a situation in which you didn’t want the other person to know something about you? You had something you wanted to keep secret? How did you act? Did the other person realize you were hiding something? How did your behavior change the way they acted toward you?

There's been many times where I have had a secret that I couldn't tell my friend, especially when its about them, and they ask about it but I can't tell them. It makes me sad when I can't tell them, but they really want to know, because I know how it feels to want to know something that you're friend won't tell you about.

Sometimes when that happens my friends get mad at me, because they think I purposely won't tell them, and then they won't talk to you. Secrets can really start a big mess sometimes and really hurt friendships. Sometimes when a friend won't tell me something, I feel like they don't think that they can trust me enough. Trust also has alot to do with secrets, when you tell somebody a secret that you can't really trust, then it could be spread, or took wrongly.